
How to Give a Wedding Toast
For the best man, the maid of honor and the father of the bride — how long to speak, what to say, what never to say, and how to land the ending.
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The reception, hour by hour: the toasts, the menu, the cake, the dancing and the photographs that outlast everything else.


For the best man, the maid of honor and the father of the bride — how long to speak, what to say, what never to say, and how to land the ending.




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